Random Thoughts

Have you met…..YOU? So over the course of time, I have been through various ups and downs. The highest of them has filled me with joy and inflated my ego and the lowest of low has broken and changed me. At some point in time, we all must have seen a motivational speaker, read a motivating or soul searching book or have turned towards an advisor for help. There are umpteen reasons for that… Maybe we were lost and wanted to know the path     Maybe we knew the answer but needed assurance    Maybe be had hope for betterment  or   Simple peer pressure. Whatever the reasons maybe when we turned towards these means; the most common thing I came across was…Find the real you, befriend it and become a better self. But, as beautiful as it sounds it might not always be true, or rather agreeable. Over a period of time, we have changed, adapted and grown just to fit in society or to be able to make our place in it. There are people who actually...

Life is beautiful for some and not so beautiful for others. Everyone has a different view of it. Those who see beauty in life are the ones who cherish each moment of it despite of its oddities. While some may not be able to see beyond the negativity of it and hence, unable to see its beauty. In life you may fall in any of the two above categories or you may shift yourself from one to another over a period of time. At times we fight hard to keep the positives alive, while at times the circumstances overpower us and cloud our thinking. The best part of human life is; that we are capable of sharing our feelings and emotions with others. We have people around us to share our sorrows and double our happiness.  But, at times we fall prey to self-loathing and inferiority complex. We may avoid sharing our feelings with the fear of being mocked or judged upon. We may consider ourselves as a misfit to our society or feel as a failure.  These feelings lead to many consequen...